Do you remember the last time you were on a dancefloor and the music was all through your body?
That is the feeling that can exist inside you every day.
I think we are coming to a time in this new world, where the things that helped us get through the tough times don't work anymore. More and more people are waking up and I am grateful they are around me. I know I am supposed to talk about myself on this page, but I just want to check in with myself and see how I feel about that? I check in with myself more these days before I write anything and what I have to say is this; I have won more than 50 awards for creativity in choreography, participated in more than 200 constellations and supported the transformation of over 20,000 people.
A born and raised Adelaidian with nothing more than a weirdly creative brain and a dream, I’m proud to have created a socially conscious way to transcend the life events that destabilize us. When you have experienced a defining life event, you see that everything before the even is somehow different and the trajectory has to change, it is exciting and terrifying all at the same time.
Do you remember the last time you were on a dancefloor and the music was all through your body?
That is the feeling that can exist inside you every day.
I think we are coming to a time in this new world, where the things that helped us get through the tough times don't work anymore. More and more people are waking up and I am grateful they are around me. I know I am supposed to talk about myself on this page, but I just want to check in with myself and see how I feel about that? I check in with myself more these days before I write anything and what I have to say is this; I have won more than 50 awards for creativity in choreography, participated in more than 200 constellations and supported the transformation of over 20,000 people.
A born and raised Adelaidian with nothing more than a weirdly creative brain and a dream, I’m proud to have created a socially conscious way to transcend the life events that destabilize us. When you have experienced a defining life event, you see that everything before the even is somehow different and the trajectory has to change, it is exciting and terrifying all at the same time.
I am passionate about showing you how to connect the dots.
Being in rhythm with yourself is not just for dancers
One of the things I’m often asked is “How do you do that?”
For as long as I can remember people have said to me, 'the way you do things is unique and special,' and I never believed them. I've always felt stuck between the art of creativity and spirituality and the science of human potential and it wasn't until my own uprising that I realised it was all smoke and mirrors. If you ignore red flags, want life before the crisis you will never truly transform your life. What's worse is your children and the people you influence will also never transform their lives and the ripple effect of never really feeling yourself bleeds into the system. The family system and the people you are working with.
Being someone who has extraordinary capacity for vision, to see things in your world that cannot be explained through art and science left me feeling vulnerable to criticism. I have been hiding that part of me or is it just with neurodivergent qualities I am able to step proudly into the many parts and integrate them.
After several attempts at dancing professionally, I didn’t enjoy the process of auditioning and performing. I landed a job coordinating a dance program for a school and making story dances for young people. This dance business turned over a million dollars a year and it was the second time I was using the breadth of my skills to build businesses for other people.
Having taught more than 20,000 dancers, created more than 60 award winning story-dance and musical theatre works, I knew it was time.
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I gave up the security of having a wage, and took the savings I had to build a coaching business from the ground up. Then I got cancer in 2014 and had used all my savings, so I relied on others to support me. Then my partner left in 2018. I was homeless and then houseless and if it wasn’t for the generosity of my parents, and my connection to my motherline, I don’t know where I would be now.
I started building the infrastructure of what transformation looks like in a world where storytelling is not always the truth but used in conversation as if it is fact — I learned this through the amplification of the war through the cancer experience.
I believe you have to deal with your trauma head on if you want to show up and be emotionally wealthy.
I had escaped the trauma for more than 25 years while living in Sydney, but nothing prepared me for the onslaught of emotions and going no contact with family members to protect myself. Narcisstic abuse therapists; sexual abuse therapists; Systemic Constellation; 12 step programs; an eating disorder psychologist, and specialist coaching in trauma recovery were just some of the ways in which I healed my pain. I did more work in three years from 2020 - 2023, than I had done my whole life. It was the best investment in my mental health ever.
I had to learn how to ask for help, over and over again.
I am undeniable proof that you can go from crisis to homeless, to houseless and break all the stereotypes of doing the ‘bare minimum’ just to survive. Not everyone is going to have the same opportunities I had. I have a mum that has entirely got my back and my friends are my lifeforce. They believe in me and this work but most importantly — I learned how to ask for help. Every single day I learned how to use money to make more money. I didn’t get handouts. I worked for every penny I invested into my organization. I worked in-kind with more than 100 people, exchanging my coaching and creative skills, and learning everything I could about neurophysiology, energetics, coaching psychology and spiritual philosophy so that the foundation of my work was sound.
I believe you have to bring your true self to the table if you want to be happy, confident and ethically successful.
That includes your truest identity. The person you were born to be, but as a result of life, you can become the roles others want you to be. It includes knowing how to self-reflect, not just learning a bunch of skills but looking back and taking responsibility for your part in a combusting situation. It also includes Multipotentiality — your unique set of gifts. These qualities are the foundation of the reinvention of yourself and your life and only after can you act altruistically. Acting to improve the welfare of others through philanthropy and partnering with social justice groups.
This philosophy is a stupid amount of hard work and focus and a massive lesson in ego reduction and humility. I have not had anyone invest money into me. I have had people invest time, education and love into me. I don’t have a partner supporting me and I used money from my Nonna to build something to make money so I could keep doing this, and the money helps, but unless you are driven and focused — money will just slip through your fingers like it did mine for the first year.
Yes, I had help, but I also sacrificed a lot.
And if I can do this at 50, so can you.
And now I am here with you.
I am here to be of service to you. I’ve had more than a million dollars of in-kind service invested in me and I believe in you. My company is built on love, truth and transparency. I am passionate about putting a stop to homelessness for women and domestic violence. We are here to make a difference.
There is plenty of research saying that if we can reduce and diffuse trauma, we can reduce and diffuse illness.
