Where Loneliness Comes to Die

wildly uncomfortable, safe events

When Belonging becomes Depending

When the need to belong outweighs the desire for change.

People will often stay in painful situations just to feel like they belong. Social isolation is as bad for your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day and twice as harmful as obesity. One in five Americans struggles with chronic loneliness, which explains why so many choose to belong over freedom—even when it hurts. Our deep need to belong can make us stick with toxic relationships, jobs, or communities rather than risk being alone. The fear of isolation often outweighs the discomfort of staying stuck.

"There is a difference between drama and chaos. Drama creates tension, chaos creates momentum"

Beginnings and Endings at the Same Time

The Paradox of Creative Destruction

A testament to nature's wisdom—where endings are not just losses but invitations for innovation, rebirth and new beginnings. And even though we know this; Forests regenerate after wildfires, rivers carve new paths after floods, there is a sweet resistance to the destruction, even though we know In every cycle, what fades makes way for something vibrant and new — we would rather the status quo, that the ultimate freedom.

WHAT WE DO

Constellate  Actualize Synchronize Attune

There is a Method to our Randomness

When you come into a space you want to know what you are in for but sometimes, it's the not knowing — that makes it that much more powerful.

FREEDOM

WISDOM 

GROOVE

PLENTY

CONSTELLATING

Family Constellations

The Old World
The past

ACTUALIZING

Third Generation Coaching

The Middle World
The present

Behavioral Choreography & Creative Leadership

SYNCHRONIZING

The New World
The Vision

Systemic Constellations & Movements of the Spirit Mind

ATTUNING

The Interworlds
The Viewpoint

Which question sometimes pops into my head?
Which question peaks my curiosity?

Where is my place?

Where is creativity for me?

How did I end up here again?

What am I missing?

Which discomfort does my brain or body tell me I am feeling today?

Anxiety

Depression

Stress

Burnout

OUR EVENT STYLES

Constellations, Rituals, Immersions and Special Events

Our application of constellation is an expanded vision of Bert Hellinger's work. We honor the tradition and his progressive vision and therefore our events are progressive and experiencial.

WE BELIEVE IN...

A Space Full of Grace and Sillyness

because 'the work' can be too serious sometimes.

Sometimes doing 'the work' feels like doing a triathlon; swimming through a swamp of repressed memories, biking uphill against generational trauma, and the running — is dodging other people’s projections. Relief hits when you have the occasional urge to laugh at how absurdly hard you’ve been working for that finish line."

There's a method to our randomness

The Status Quo

The percentage of people who resist change depends on the context—psychological, organizational, or social. Academic research provides several insights:

1. General Resistance to Change

2. Organizational Change Resistance

3. Innovation Adoption and Change

Conclusion

While context matters, at least 50-70% of people exhibit some level of resistance to change, with about 30-50% actively resisting in most scenarios. The degree depends on personality, past experiences, and external factors like social and organizational environments.


We would prefer chronic illness than isolation.

Individuals often choose to remain in harmful situations to satisfy their intrinsic need to belong. Research indicates that social isolation poses health risks comparable to smoking 15 cigarettes daily and is twice as detrimental as obesity. citeturn0search7 This profound need for connection can lead individuals to endure negative environments rather than face isolation. Studies have shown that one in five Americans suffers from chronic loneliness, highlighting the lengths to which people will go to avoid social isolation. This drive for belonging can result in individuals remaining in detrimental situations, prioritizing social connection over personal well-being.

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