THE HOUSE OF PLENTY
Pride, a deeper love
Aretha Franklin (1986)

We've become hypnotized into believing that money and purpose when connected is a good thing...
Financial Freedom was the catch-cry of the 1990's and still echo's covertly today through financial and self-help literature and despite knowing money doesn't bring happiness or more connection, we still need it.
What am I missing?
you are called to go beyond 'why'
Are easily connected to yourself and others
Are connected to the bigger picture (whatever that is for you)
Don't want to be doing more, but feel like you are not doing not enough
Have a fear of not being successful
Feeling burnout by the end of the year
Difficulty finding more time
you have corrupt motives
You want to connect your purpose to how you make money.
If you fear not having enough money.
If you are looking for a way to make more money.
If you cannot see your own denial and delusion.
If you are not attracted to this house because 'you don't do what you do for the money'
The House of Plenty
THE SIXTH ELEMENT
supports your need or lack of need for meaning
addresses your beliefs around money, meaning and what they are combined
raises your awareness on how money has been used in corrupt ways around in
exposes the invisible vision you didn't know you had.
fosters meaning in unusual ways you may not have experienced before.
1 — ORDER: Constellating: The Paradoxical Theory of Change
2 — MOTIF: Actualizing: Home as the Happiest Place on Earth
3 — TIME: Synchronizing: Money and Meaning
4 — SPACE: Attuning: The Sixth Element
5 — ENERGY: Finding home through Intergenerational Vision
1
ORDER
CONSTELLATING
The Paradox of Constant Change
when you are finished changing you are finished
2
MOTIF
ACTUALIZING
Home, is The Happiest Place on Earth
all roads lead to home
Home is fluid, portable and self-defined.
3
TIME
SYNCHRONIZING
Meaning & Money
finding your rhythm between money & meaning
The money and meaning wounds and that have potentially and sometimes unintentionally been created unethically.
4
SPACE
ATTUNING
The Sixth Element
the carbon footprint you will leave behind
The impact of the choices you make today, for your children, and their children and their children.
5
ENERGY
FEHU
new beginnings
finding home
C.A.S.A: Intergenerational Vision
Your ancestors didn't just hand down trauma, the good ancestors had a vision also.
& WHY
1 — ORDER: Constellating The Paradoxical Theory of Change
The Paradoxical Theory of Change posits that authentic transformation occurs when individuals fully accept and embrace their current selves, rather than striving to become something they're not. This approach, rooted in Gestalt therapy, emphasizes self-acceptance and awareness as catalysts for natural, organic change.
Key Characteristics:
Self-Acceptance: Embracing one's true feelings, thoughts, and behaviors without judgment. This acceptance creates a foundation for genuine change.
Awareness: Cultivating a deep understanding of one's present experiences and internal states. Heightened awareness allows individuals to recognize patterns and areas needing growth.
Synchronizing: Merging fragmented or disowned parts of the self into a cohesive whole. This process fosters internal harmony and reduces inner conflict and provides the support to have many parts at the same time.
Non-Resistance: Avoiding the urge to force change, which can lead to internal resistance. Instead, allowing change to emerge naturally from self-acceptance.
Elements of Constant Change:
In the natural state, individuals are in a continuous dynamic interaction with their environment, leading to constant change. This ongoing process is facilitated by:
Dynamic Interaction: Engaging in a continuous exchange with one's surroundings, leading to natural evolution.
Process Orientation: Focusing on ongoing experiences rather than fixed outcomes, allowing for fluid transformation.
Sources:
Further Reading
Future Proof: Solving the 'Adaptability Paradox' for the Long Term
Cultivating a Paradoxical Mindset: Enhancing Transformative Learning Through Paradoxical Leadership
ORGANIZATIONAL
Reversion to Dominant Paradigms: Organizations may revert to established paradigms that reinforce current realities, hindering critical examination and necessary paradigm shifts.
Interwoven Paradoxes: Conflicting demands and opposing perspectives can become entangled, transforming positive features into negative ones and complicating the transformation process.
Tacit Knowledge Challenges: The paradox arises when individuals embark on transformative journeys without a clear roadmap, relying on tacit knowledge that is difficult to articulate but essential for guiding the process.
Paradoxical Leadership: Leaders must balance competing demands, such as fostering innovation while maintaining stability, to navigate the complexities of transformation effectively.
Sources:
A Framework for the Analysis of Politics in Enterprise Transformations
Cultivating a paradoxical mindset: enhancing transformative learning through paradoxical leadership
1 — ORDER: Constellating The Paradox of Constant Change
2 — MOTIF: Actualizing "Home, is the Happiest Place on Earth"
“The Happiest Place on Earth...?”
Once Upon a Sad Time... Walt Disney, a visionary of the last century, captured the magic of a child’s imagination to create “The Happiest Place on Earth.” A dreamworld of cotton candy realities, everlasting hugs, and princesses who seem to float as they walk.
Once Upon a Violent Time... As wartime production lifted economies from the Great Depression, alliances like ANZUS formed, the Chinese Revolution unfolded, and the Cold War began. Conflict shifted to political maneuvers, propaganda, and the hearts and minds of people.
Once Upon a Dream... Walt Disney’s vision for Disneyland began on a simple outing to Griffith Park, where he dreamed of a place for adults and children to find joy together.
Once Upon a Real Fantasy... In 1955, Disneyland opened as a beacon of curiosity and happiness, offering families an escape and a connection. “The most important thing is family,” Walt Disney declared, bringing joy to millions.
But for many children born into poverty, happiness at home was scarce. Struggling parents couldn’t create wonder, and children learned to seek happiness elsewhere.
Happiness became a fleeting escape, especially during socially sanctioned times like Christmas, where instant gratification replaced genuine connection. Disneyland symbolized the idea that happiness existed far away, in a magical place where dreams came true.
But imagine this: home as the happiest place on earth. What if joy and connection were built not in fantasy but in the everyday moments of our lives? What if the dream wasn’t “somewhere else” but right where we are?
3 — TIME: Synchronizing "Money and Meaning."
The relationship between money and life's meaning has been a subject of extensive academic research, revealing a complex and nuanced interplay. When individuals intertwine their personal purpose with income generation, it can lead to a dilution of their original intent and raise ethical concerns. This entanglement often shifts focus from genuine impact to profit maximization, potentially compromising the authenticity of one's mission.
Key Points:
Dilution of Purpose: Monetizing a personal mission can divert attention from the original goals, leading to decisions driven by financial gain rather than the intended impact. This shift can erode the foundational values of the mission.
Perceived Disingenuousness: When financial incentives overshadow altruistic motives, audiences may question the sincerity of the individual's purpose. This skepticism can damage credibility and trust.
Neglect of Ethical Considerations: The pursuit of profit can lead to the promotion of products or services without fully assessing their potential negative impacts on mental health or digital well-being. For instance, digital health products may present harms to mental health or raise issues related to informed consent and privacy.
Exploitation of Vulnerable Populations: Monetizing mental health services without proper safeguards can result in the exploitation of individuals seeking help, potentially leading to harm. For example, patients may feel abandoned if clinicians are cut from services, causing real harm.
Income and Life Satisfaction: Studies consistently show that individuals with higher incomes report greater life satisfaction compared to those with lower incomes. This suggests a positive correlation between financial resources and overall contentment.
Meaning as a Predictor of Happiness: Research indicates that for individuals with lower incomes, a sense of meaning in life is a stronger predictor of happiness than for wealthier individuals. This implies that when financial resources are limited, deriving value and meaning from life becomes crucial for well-being.
Impact of Wealth on Happiness and Meaning: Some studies suggest that wealthier individuals may find it more challenging to derive happiness from meaningful activities compared to those with less financial means. This could be due to a focus on material gains over experiential or purposeful pursuits.
Materialism and Well-Being: A strong emphasis on material possessions has been linked to lower life satisfaction and increased psychological issues, such as depression and anxiety. This highlights the potential negative impact of prioritizing wealth accumulation over meaningful experiences.
Spending on Experiences vs. Material Goods: Research suggests that allocating money towards experiences, rather than tangible items, leads to greater happiness. Experiences contribute more significantly to personal identity and lasting satisfaction. citeturn0search7
Academic References:
Diener, E., & Biswas-Diener, R. (2002). Will money increase subjective well-being? Social Indicators Research, 57(2), 119-169.
Aaker, J., Rudd, M., & Mogilner, C. (2011). If money doesn't make you happy, consider time. Journal of Consumer Psychology, 21(2), 126-130.
Kasser, T., & Ryan, R. M. (1993). A dark side of the American dream: Correlates of financial success as a central life aspiration. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 65(2), 410-422.
Van Boven, L., & Gilovich, T. (2003). To do or to have? That is the question. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 85(6), 1193-1202.
Killingsworth, M. A., & Mellers, B. A. (2021). Does more money correlate with greater happiness? Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 118(4), e2016976118.
Ethical issues in direct-to-consumer healthcare: A scoping review. Journal of Medical Internet Research, 2022. citeturn0search1
Monetizing mental health technology. Monitor on Psychology, 2023. citeturn0search9
The commercial determinants of mental health. Centre for Mental Health, 2025. citeturn0search15
Ethical perspectives on recommending digital technology for patients with mental illness. Frontiers in Psychiatry, 2017.
Your mental health data is being sold—and it's legal. Healthline, 2021.
4 — SPACE: Attuning The Sixth Element: Your Carbon Footprint (At home, in business and in hearts).
Activism often feels like a paradox: sitting on the fence seems easier than taking a stand, yet making a stand can feel less draining than the paralysis of indecision. In those moments of being stuck—feeling reactive, isolated, or disconnected—you might seek a podcast, program, or solution to escape the funk. But even that search feels like too much effort. These face-to-face events break that loop. They create a rhythm, a groove, that moves you out of paralysis and into connectivity. In this shared space, you’re reenergized—not by doing more, but by taking a stand that requires little to no energy.
Carbon, the sixth element on the periodic table, serves as a profound metaphor for the legacy we impart to future generations. Just as carbon is a fundamental building block present in all known life forms and numerous materials, our actions and decisions permeate the fabric of our environment and society, leaving enduring imprints.
Carbon's Omnipresence:
Biological Foundation: Carbon atoms form the backbone of organic molecules, constituting the essence of all living organisms.
Material Composition: Beyond biology, carbon is integral to various substances, from the hardness of diamonds to the softness of graphite.
Environmental Cycle: Carbon continuously cycles through the atmosphere, oceans, soil, and living entities, underscoring the interconnectedness of Earth's systems.
Metaphorical Implications for Our Legacy:
Pervasive Influence: Our daily choices—be it energy consumption, transportation habits, or dietary preferences—emit carbon, contributing to environmental changes that affect ecosystems and human well-being.
Interconnected Impact: Just as carbon links various natural processes, our actions are intertwined with global systems. Sustainable practices can lead to positive outcomes, while neglect can propagate adverse effects.
Enduring Consequences: Certain carbon compounds, like CO₂, persist in the atmosphere for extended periods, influencing climate patterns. Similarly, the environmental decisions we make today will resonate, shaping the world inherited by future generations.
Embracing a Positive Carbon Legacy:
Mindful Consumption: Opting for renewable energy sources, reducing waste, and supporting sustainable products can minimize negative impacts.
Community Engagement: Collective efforts in conservation, reforestation, and environmental education amplify positive change, fostering a culture of sustainability.
Innovative Solutions: Investing in and adopting technologies that capture carbon or reduce emissions contribute to a healthier planet.
References:
Carbon - Element information, properties and uses | Periodic Table
The Earth is Our Home: Systemic Metaphors to Redefine Our Relationship with Nature
5 — ENERGY: Finding home through Intergenerational Vision: Good for me, myself and why
The Ecology of Real Intimacy & Quantum Vision
Real intimacy isn’t just about closeness between individuals—it’s about connection within a larger, living system. Like Quantum Vision, intimacy isn’t linear; it’s shaped by rhythm, presence, and the unseen forces that bind us.
A Multi-Layered Ecology of Intimacy:
🌱 Good for Me, Myself & Why – How does this connection feel for me? Does it align with my integrity and well-being? Why does it matter beyond just me?
🔗 Good for the People Around Me – How does this shape my relationships?
🌍 Good for the Greater Good – Does this create more trust, belonging, and connection?
💫 Good for the Greatest Good – How does this support humanity’s evolution?
Real Intimacy as a Quantum Process:
✅ CONSTELLATING | Interconnected – Every interaction shapes the field, creating unseen ripples of influence.
🌱 ACTUALIZING | Embodying – Intimacy becomes real when it moves from idea to lived experience.
🎶 SYNCHRONIZING | Rhythmic – Intimacy, like reality, moves in rhythms—we don’t force, we flow.
🔮 ATTUNING | Co-Creative – Our perceptions and presence shape what emerges, weaving new possibilities into being.
Ancestral Wisdom: new beginnings & ethical wealth
Fehu (ᚠ) is the first rune of the Elder Futhark, the ancient runic alphabet. It represents wealth, prosperity, and new beginnings, but its meaning goes beyond just material riches.
Deeper Meanings of Fehu:
Material & Spiritual Wealth – Originally symbolizing cattle (a measure of wealth in ancient times), Fehu also relates to abundance in all forms—money, resources, knowledge, and energy.
Flow & Exchange – Wealth isn’t about hoarding; Fehu reminds us that prosperity comes through circulation, generosity, and wise stewardship.
Manifestation & New Beginnings – As the first rune, Fehu is linked to initiating projects, setting intentions, and bringing ideas into reality.
Responsibility & Value – True abundance isn’t just about possession; it requires alignment with values and ethical use of resources.
Fehu & the House of Plenty
In the House of Plenty, Fehu embodies true abundance—not just wealth, but the rhythm of giving, receiving, and sustaining what matters. Just as Fehu once symbolized cattle, a resource that only held value when shared and cared for, the House of Plenty reclaims home as a space of intimacy, fulfillment, and flow.
Wealth is not just what we have but how we exchange it. Fehu reminds us that abundance thrives in movement—whether it’s resources, love, or wisdom.
Plenty is about alignment, not excess. The House of Plenty isn’t about hoarding or scarcity mindsets; it’s about knowing what is enough and honoring the cycles of giving and receiving.
Home is where real wealth is felt. The deepest prosperity is in connection, in the spaces where we are seen, held, and in sync with those around us.
Fehu in this house is a reminder that true prosperity is rhythmic, relational, and meant to be shared. Would you like to refine or expand on any of these ideas?