NAVA VISION
A Beautiful New Way of Seeing
Change Happens When We Become Who We Are
The Paradoxical Theory of Change
Change happens naturally when we become who we are, rather than striving to become something we are not. Forcing change leads to resistance, stagnation and procrastination. The problem is the personal growth industry has a culture of 'doing' and 'taking action,' and learning more to reduce suffering, — suggesting 'knowledge is power,' and some people have become lost in this.
Today, the personal growth industry industry is valued at $45.7 billion dollars and is projected to reach $90.5 billion by 2033.
"I don't want to be part of a system that has lost it's way in helping others!"
We Are Building a New World
We can't change the Personal Growth Industry, but we be part of a new way of seeing what ethical growth & transformation looks like.
The personal growth industry thrives on transformation, healing & growth—but at what cost? Beneath the promises of empowerment, many industry practices exploit, manipulate, and mislead. These issues don’t just come from the stereotypical guru on a stage; they emerge in quiet, ways from well-intentioned people who have influence without accountability
NAVA'S VISION
To inspire
Humane Potential in everyone.
Humane Potential
Honoring human dignity, collective responsibility and intergenerational vision over individual optimization
Humane potential is the capacity for ethical, compassionate, and interconnected human growth—one that prioritizes dignity, collective responsibility, and sustainable transformation over individual optimization. It integrates the brain (intellect and critical thinking), the somatic body (felt experience and embodied wisdom), the heart (emotional depth and relational connection), and the spirit (meaning, purpose, and interconnectedness).
This approach moves beyond self-improvement toward a shared, generational, and systemic evolution, ensuring that growth benefits not just the individual but the greater whole.
MULTI-VISION
The answer isn’t to regulate an industry that stretches beyond the limits of “knowledge is power,” but to inspire multi-visionary approach. The years of simple is better has created a sense of learned helplessness.
A Beautiful New Way Of Seeing
I've spent the last ten years on a rite of passage. Life now divides into two parts: pre-cancer—where my focus was on career, relationships, property, business, and 'healthy living'—and post-cancer—marked by twelve chronic illnesses, homelessness, divorce, a 30-kilo weight gain, and little family to turn to.
And yet, I have never been happier.
If someone had told me that life gets better when you stop doing 'the work'—the endless cycle of growth and self-improvement—I would have dismissed it. But that was before I discovered — Intergenerational Vision.
The Lost Children
The phrase “children should be seen and not heard” silenced generations, teaching children to suppress emotions, opinions, and needs. This enforced emotional repression stifled their ability to develop healthy communication and self-worth, fostering shame and fear of vulnerability. As these children grew into adults, unresolved trauma often perpetuated cycles of emotional disconnection, neglect, and authoritarian parenting. The lack of emotional expression disrupted familial bonds, creating a legacy of unspoken pain and mistrust. Today, this cultural silence manifests as widespread difficulty in emotional regulation, strained relationships, and the normalization of suppressing trauma rather than healing it, perpetuating generational cycles of harm.
The term "lost children" can apply broadly to individuals or groups who feel overlooked, marginalized, or disconnected. Beyond the obvious examples of the homeless, abandoned, or forgotten, here are some other groups that might fit this description but are less visible or recognized:
1. Elderly in Isolation
Many older adults live in loneliness due to neglect, lack of family connection, or societal focus on youth.
They may feel like their contributions no longer matter.
2. Caregivers
Those caring for others (elderly parents, disabled family members, etc.) often sacrifice their own needs, dreams, and identities, becoming invisible to society.
3. Undocumented Immigrants
Living in the shadows without rights, recognition, or security, they often feel unseen and excluded despite contributing to society.
4. Foster Youth Who Age Out of the System
Teenagers who turn 18 in foster care often lack support systems or guidance, leaving them vulnerable to homelessness and instability.
5. Victims of Domestic Abuse
Individuals trapped in abusive relationships may be physically present but emotionally lost, isolated by fear and stigma.
6. Those with Chronic Mental Illness
Mental health conditions often alienate individuals, as society fails to understand or accommodate their needs.
7. Prisoners and Ex-Convicts
Incarceration and post-release stigma can strip people of their humanity and opportunities, leaving them disconnected from society.
8. Marginalized Workers
People in exploitative jobs (e.g., sweatshop workers, gig economy laborers) may feel like cogs in a machine, unseen and undervalued.
9. LGBTQ+ Youth in Unsupportive Families
Many LGBTQ+ individuals, especially in conservative or unsupportive environments, experience rejection and invisibility.
10. People in High-Pressure Professions
High-achieving professionals, like doctors, lawyers, or CEOs, can feel isolated by societal expectations, masking their struggles with external success.
11. Invisible Grievers
Those grieving losses society doesn’t widely recognize (e.g., miscarriages, estranged relationships) may feel unseen in their pain.
12. Children of the Overworked or Absent
Kids whose parents are consumed by work or personal issues often feel emotionally abandoned, even if physically provided for.
13. Neurodivergent Adults
Many autistic or ADHD adults go undiagnosed and unsupported, struggling silently with societal expectations.
14. Refugees and Displaced Persons
Forced from their homes and struggling to integrate, refugees often live as perpetual outsiders.
Each of these groups shares a sense of being "lost" in a society that either overlooks or fails to fully embrace them. Identifying and addressing their needs can foster a more inclusive and connected community.
Absolutely. Here are additional groups who might also be considered “lost children” in society, highlighting those who are often unseen or overlooked:
15. Adult Survivors of Childhood Abuse
Many carry invisible scars and a sense of disconnection that can make it difficult to find belonging or self-worth.
16. Indigenous Communities
Marginalized by systemic neglect, historical trauma, and cultural erasure, they often face ongoing invisibility in mainstream society.
17. Veterans
Those returning from military service may feel alienated, struggling with PTSD, unemployment, or finding their place in civilian life.
18. Children of Addicts
Growing up in homes with addiction often forces children to take on adult responsibilities, leaving them emotionally and socially adrift.
19. Trafficking Victims
Hidden in plain sight, victims of human trafficking endure exploitation and are often ignored or misidentified by society.
20. Invisible Workers
Janitors, sanitation workers, delivery drivers, and others whose labor is essential but unacknowledged often feel invisible and unappreciated.
21. Incarcerated Mothers and Fathers
Parents in prison often lose contact with their children and communities, suffering emotional and social exile.
22. Young Adults in Generational Poverty
Trapped by systemic inequality, they may feel hopeless, with few role models or resources to envision a different future.
23. Tech-Dependent Youth
Over-reliance on digital connections can lead to social isolation, even while appearing engaged online.
24. Children of Divorce or High-Conflict Homes
Kids caught in the middle of family disputes may struggle to find stability or a sense of belonging.
25. Introverts in an Extroverted World
Those who don’t fit the dominant cultural preference for extroversion can feel undervalued or overlooked.
26. Artists and Creatives in Non-Traditional Careers
Struggling to gain recognition or financial stability, many creatives feel unseen in a society that prioritizes material success.
27. Chronically Ill or Disabled Individuals
People with invisible illnesses or disabilities often face misunderstanding and exclusion from spaces that don’t accommodate their needs.
28. Children in Religious Cults or Extremist Groups
Raised in isolated or controlling environments, they may struggle to integrate into society if they leave.
29. Estranged Family Members
Those cut off from families due to conflict, differing beliefs, or stigma may feel deeply unmoored and unseen.
30. Long-Term Unemployed
Extended unemployment can lead to feelings of worthlessness and invisibility, especially in a society that ties identity to productivity.
31. People in Rural or Remote Areas
Those living far from urban centers may feel left out of cultural, technological, and economic advancements.
32. Single Parents
Juggling multiple roles often leaves little room for personal fulfillment or societal acknowledgment of their struggles.
33. International Students
Far from home, often isolated and under immense pressure, they may feel disconnected from both their home and host cultures.
34. People with Unconventional Relationships
Polyamorous individuals, single by choice, or those in non-traditional setups often face judgment and exclusion.
35. Gig Economy Workers
Living paycheck to paycheck without benefits or stability, they often go unnoticed despite their critical roles in society.
This list continues to reveal how many individuals and groups can feel like “lost children” in a society that prioritizes certain narratives over others. By recognizing these groups, we can begin to bridge the gaps that leave them unseen.
The Human Potential Movement
For a moment in time (the 60's & 70's) Human Potential became the answer to unexplained or ill explained mental health. A rebellion against mainstream psychology, which at the time was treating neurodivergence and mental health conditions, with electric shock therapy, dangerous surgery (without consent) antipsychotic drugs and admitting people to asylums.
The Human Potential Movement emerged in the 1960s, emphasizing self-actualization, personal growth, and expanded consciousness through psychological and spiritual development.
Biggest Problem: It often promotes individual self-optimization over systemic change, leading to commercialized, guru-driven models that exploit vulnerability rather than fostering true transformation.
Characteristics of a Movement:
Core Philosophy – Belief in human growth, potential, and self-actualization.
Charismatic Leaders – Figures like Esalen founders, Maslow, Rogers, and later self-help gurus.
Practices & Modalities – Therapy, meditation, breathwork, bodywork, group processes.
Institutions & Centers – Esalen, Landmark, coaching organizations.
Cultural Impact – Influences psychology, wellness, leadership, and spirituality.
Commercialization – Books, courses, workshops, retreats, and certifications.
Community & Identity – Shared language, rituals, and insider knowledge.
Criticism & Counter-Movements – Accusations of pseudoscience, exploitation, and individualism over systemic impact.
The Self-Help Movement
The self-help industry has experienced significant growth in recent years. In 2024, the global self-improvement market was valued at approximately $45.7 billion and is projected to reach $90.5 billion by 2033, reflecting a compound annual growth rate (CAGR) of 7.9%. Similarly, the U.S. self-improvement market was valued at around $15.99 billion in 2023, with expectations to grow to approximately $27.00 billion by 2032, indicating a CAGR of 6.0%.
The publishing industry has also seen notable trends. In October 2024, total revenues across all publishing categories in the U.S. were up 8.3% compared to October 2023, totaling $1.4 billion. Year-to-date revenues for the first ten months of 2024 reached $12.1 billion, marking a 7.1% increase from the same period in the previous year. The global book publishing market grew from $83.41 billion in 2023 to $87.18 billion in 2024 and is expected to continue growing at a CAGR of 4.52%, reaching $113.69 billion by 2030.
A significant trend within the publishing industry is the rising demand for digital formats. In October 2024, eBook revenues in the U.S. were $83.9 million, while digital audio formats saw an 18.7% increase, reaching $86.5 million in revenue. This shift towards digital consumption is further evidenced by the growing popularity of audiobooks and eBooks, with platforms like Audible experiencing a 47% increase in searches over the past decade.
Despite the proliferation of self-help materials, academic research presents a nuanced view of their effectiveness. Studies have shown that bibliotherapy, or the use of self-help books for therapeutic purposes, can be beneficial. For instance, a meta-analysis reported an effect size of 0.83 in seven depression bibliotherapy studies, indicating a significant positive impact. However, the effectiveness varies depending on the quality of the material and the individual's engagement with the content.
Regarding reading habits, data indicates a decline in book readership. In 2022, 48.5% of U.S. adults reported reading at least one book in the past year, a decrease from 54.6% a decade earlier. This trend raises questions about the actual consumption of self-help books and their potential impact on personal transformation.
These statistics underscore the robust expansion of the self-help sector and the dynamic evolution of the publishing industry, particularly with the increasing consumer preference for digital content.
Sources:
The Modern Self-Help Movement
The Self-Help Movement and the Human Potential Movement (HPM) are deeply connected, but they have distinct origins and emphases:
Key Connections:
Shared Goal of Personal Growth
Both movements focus on self-improvement, transformation, and achieving one’s fullest potential.
Roots in Psychology and Philosophy
The Human Potential Movement (HPM) emerged from humanistic psychology (Maslow, Rogers, Esalen Institute), emphasizing self-actualization, peak experiences, and personal fulfillment.
The Self-Help Movement draws from psychology but also from business, spirituality, and pop culture, often focusing on practical steps for success.
Influence on Coaching and Wellness Industries
HPM introduced ideas like group therapy, body-mind integration, and experiential learning.
Self-help adapted these into books, seminars, and coaching models, making them more accessible to mainstream audiences.
Commercialization and Pop Psychology
The self-help industry popularized many HPM ideas but often simplified them into motivational content, life hacks, and success formulas.
HPM aimed for deep personal transformation, while self-help often leans toward goal-setting, productivity, and mindset shifts.
Key Difference:
HPM focuses on collective transformation—human potential as a shared, holistic experience.
Self-help is often individualistic, centering on personal success, habits, and mindset shifts.
Essentially, the Self-Help Movement mainstreamed and commercialized the deeper work of the Human Potential Movement, often reducing transformation to personal achievement rather than collective evolution.
True 'Growth' Crimes
The Invisible Crimes of the Personal Growth Industry
The personal growth industry thrives on transformation—but at what cost? Beneath the promises of empowerment, many industry practices exploit, manipulate, and mislead. These issues don’t just come from the stereotypical guru on a stage; they emerge in quiet, insidious ways from well-intentioned people who have influence without accountability.
The Core Problems in Industry Practices:
Exploitation of Vulnerable Individuals
People in crisis—grieving, heartbroken, or searching for meaning—are often the industry’s most profitable audience. Instead of true support, they are sold high-ticket programs, false hope, and dependency disguised as transformation.
Cult-Like Tactics & Manipulative Leadership
Many leaders create us vs. them dynamics, fostering blind loyalty, demonizing outsiders, and positioning themselves as the only source of truth. “Leaving the community” often comes with social punishment.
Psychological and Financial Exploitation
High-pressure sales tactics and coercive influence push people into spending beyond their means, investing in endless “next-level” programs, and believing their healing depends on access to elite spaces.
Erasure of Professional Expertise
Trained psychologists, trauma specialists, and medical professionals are often dismissed in favor of self-proclaimed experts with no accountability. Mental health and healing require depth—not just charisma and personal experience.
The Myth of the Self-Made Guru
Personal growth often glorifies the individual “success story,” erasing the roles of privilege, support, and systemic realities. It fuels the illusion that if you haven’t succeeded, it’s because you haven’t worked hard enough.
Silence, Suppression, and Harm Denial
Abuse, harm, and unethical behavior are often ignored or covered up to protect reputations, brands, and revenue. Those who speak out are shamed, discredited, or labeled as "negative energy."
Over-Reliance on Knowledge Without Personal Healing
Many industry leaders accumulate knowledge—science, psychology, ancient wisdom—without doing their own deep healing. Intellectual understanding without personal embodiment leads to detached, ineffective guidance.
The Fragmentation of Science, Spirituality, and Embodied Wisdom
Science and spirituality are often treated as opposites, rather than complementary forces. Some academics dismiss the role of meaning, connection, and spiritual experience. Some spiritualists reject neuroscience, trauma research, and professional ethics—creating a divided and incomplete approach to transformation.
Moving Beyond the Guru Model
True transformation doesn’t come from one leader, one method, or one framework. It comes from real connection, deep personal discernment, and the willingness to question everything—even those who claim to hold the answers.
The future of personal growth isn’t about who can influence the most people. It’s about creating spaces where people can reclaim their own humane potential—without dependency, manipulation, or illusion.
Bewared the Invisible Guru
Not All Gurus Look Like the Ones on Stage
The "guru archetype" isn’t just the loud, charismatic leader. The most dangerous ones can be the ones who don’t look like gurus at all—because they seem relatable, caring, or just like us.
🚨 The Rescuer
Appears nurturing and “here to save you.” Often sweet, spiritual, and mother-like.
Trauma-bonds with those who have mother wounds, creating a dependency cycle under the guise of deep friendship.
Befriends clients rather than maintaining professional boundaries—blurring lines of influence.
🚨 The Victim-Turned-Guru
Has a powerful story of overcoming hardship and uses it as proof of expertise.
Preaches that if they survived and thrived, anyone can—minimizing individual trauma, privilege, and systemic realities.
🚨 The Academic Who Disregards Spirituality
Dismisses meaning, creativity, and connection as “unscientific.”
Relies on knowledge alone, ignoring the felt, lived experience of transformation.
Views emotions and embodied wisdom as less legitimate than research papers.
🚨 The Spiritualist Who Disregards Science
Rejects neuroscience, psychology, and medical expertise in favor of “pure intuition.”
Frames critical thinking as negativity, discouraging healthy skepticism.
Overuses manifestation and energy work as solutions for real-world issues like trauma and systemic oppression.
Moving Beyond the Guru Model
True transformation doesn’t come from one leader, one method, or one framework. It comes from real connection, deep personal discernment, and the willingness to question everything—even those who claim to hold the answers.
The future of personal growth isn’t about who can influence the most people. It’s about creating spaces where people can reclaim their own humane potential—without dependency, manipulation, or illusion.